Romantic or reckless. Hooligans or nice guys. Athletes or nerds… For every woman there is a type of man. But which men are those that make women fantasize to the point that they forget that they wear a band on their finger? Gleeden, extramarital dating site with 2.7 million members interviewed more than 5000 registrants in order to better understand their desires. Find out now about the top 5 types of men that married women prefer, drawn up from their answers!
1. The nerd
In the twelfth year of medicine, chemistry or engineering at NASA, the intellectual has everything to crack a woman. He is serious, orderly and thoughtful with his sexy flair, one could listen to him talk for hours at a time. The nerd is a symbol of knowledge and success; more than a fantastic lover, he is a real asset to society. He knows that by giving value to women, they will return the favour! No wonder he arrives 1st in this list of top 5, coming in with a quarter of the votes.
2. The artist
Musician, poet, painter or writer, the artist has many faces. He has the image of a man with a special sensitivity, a quality that appeals to women every time. And he can understand them! It is said that all artists have a touch of madness, that with them one feels as if one has grown wings, that one is free. This is probably why he is in second place in the top 5 prepared by Gleeden, with 22% of votes.
3. The “younger guy”
A touch of freshness has never hurt anyone! This is the opinion of 14% of women interviewed by Gleeden.com. Yes, when you share your life with the same man for several years, to be tempted by a younger man, is a good way to reconnect with one’s femininity and to ensure that we still have the power of seduction. And youth is freedom, spontaneity, lightness. For married women, having a younger lover is a little like giving them a second chance at being young, without engaging into anything serious. It boosts one’s self-confidence, and they can return to their Official partner more attractive than ever!
4. The bad boy
In fourth place of this ranking of married women’s preferred men, comes the bad boy. Coveted by women of all ages, the bad boy is a classic fantasy. Although it is not necessarily a good choice, it seems to have a real power of attraction. Often equipped with beautiful dark eyes, he tends to escape when things get a little too serious and it does not displease married women who are on the look-out for short adventures. Their slightly volatile and inaccessible side is an indulgence to many. 12% of women have who voted for him.
5. The athlete
Ah, the sportsman with his prominent muscles and gleaming body! Needless to say the reasons behind his irresistible charm. A sportsman is a man who talks, who does not let go and who encourages you to do the same. It is also the prospect of long nights frenzy and a libido lifting pack. This is THE remedy to boost one’s self-confidence and to feel attractive again. If he takes care of his body and he likes yours, then neither of you have reasons to feel embarrassed. And that feels good! The sportsman is the preferred man for 10% of married women.
Could it be that the romantic has-been the favourite in this end of year 2015? Surprisingly, he has only arrived in 6th position in this ranking. Married women seem to prefer well-defined personalities rather than sweet words and tender gestures. But please gentlemen, do not panic, you do not necessarily need to be any of these profiles in order to charm a woman! Each man’s has his own personality and his way of exploiting his seductive potential.
Mazaurette Maia, author, columnist and sex expert reacts to this survey:
“A few years ago, the “sapien-sexual” neologism was arriving in conversations (but it had not yet reached dictionaries). A sapien-sexual person is someone that is primarily attracted to the intelligence of its partners – have you seen it, my big brain? What is interesting in this poll is that most people think that infidelity is a pure matter of sex. But here, it is all about conversation and sharing moments. Before sexual connection, there needs to be intellectual connection: we are not animals!“
*Online survey conducted from November 24 to December 1 among 5018 Gleeden.com european female members that are either married or living together in a marital relationship.